Frequently asked questions

To start selling, you need to:

• Complete your public profile (photos, description…).
• Complete your private profile and provide your bank details.
• Confirm that you are over 18 via our identity verification (KYC): front/back copy of your ID card (or passport) + a photo holding the legible document next to your face.

Once these documents are checked (age, identity, matching bank details), your profile is approved and you can sell. Additional supporting documents may be requested (address, income, assets, etc.).

Your anonymity is preserved: your data is stored on a secure server. Payouts appear under the label “Sté FiRe” on your bank statements.

Becoming a seller on Sous-Mission is within reach of any adult woman who wants to monetise her items while protecting her privacy.

Sign-up in 5 steps:

1. Create the account with the “Seller” status.
2. Complete the public profile (elegant photos of your items).
3. Fill in the private profile (information needed for payments).
4. KYC verification: ID document + photo holding it.
5. Approval by the team (usually within 48h).

Is anonymity really respected? Yes. Your real name never appears publicly: clients only see your nickname and item photos. Bank details are encrypted and transfers are labelled discreetly (“Sté FiRe”).

Why is KYC mandatory? It verifies legal age and fights fraud while keeping trust high. Once validated, you never have to do it again.

Tips to start well: begin with a few flagship items (panties, socks, photos…), polish your descriptions and photos, and enable referrals for a boost.

No. The platform is open to all consenting adults, beginners and experts alike. We support every new member.

Absolutely. Most of our sellers keep full anonymity — it is even recommended.

Confirmation: when an order is confirmed, it appears on your personal page. You have 6 days to confirm feasibility. This page shows your accounting, credited by your sales, with amounts released after a minimum hold period.

If no confirmation is given, the sale is deemed failed: the client is not refunded by bank but automatically credited to their client wallet (internal credit usable on the site). In the event of repeated or unjustified failures, an operating penalty (up to 100% of the last effective sale) may be applied and withheld from the balance due.

Order cycle: at purchase, a bank hold (pre-authorisation) is captured in favour of the company FiRe and the seller is notified. You have 6 days to validate the sale, then a further 4 days to ship (automatic reminder after the 4 days). Upon certified shipping (tracking number / video sent from the site / “order completed” validation), the payment is captured and credited to your account.

Absences: declare absence periods from your profile to suspend item sales (still visible but not orderable). On your return, disable the scheduler.

The delivered item must exactly match the photo of the product sold. To preserve freshness, place it in a sealed transparent plastic bag, then in a discreet parcel with the client’s address and a tracking number; send it directly or via the shipping service on Sous-Mission to ensure everyone’s anonymity.

Prefer tracked shipping via the site’s app (proof in case of dispute) and keep the tracking number.

Videos: videos remain the member’s property. The sale only covers the usage right (streaming) on the site for the agreed period.

Your public photos and content must be tasteful and elegant. Moderation may remove any non-compliant content without justification.

It is not allowed to publish:

• stolen photos (immediate ban);
• photos with text: watermarks, website addresses, nicknames, promotional text;
• obscene public photos and content.

• Create an item in your seller area.
• Title and description: be clear (rating /10, detailed comment, turnaround…).
• Add the required keyword in the “Keywords” field: dickrating.
• Submit: buyers will find your offer via this tag.

A single offer is enough. The client orders, then you discuss the details privately.

You set your own price when listing an item and you receive the full amount upon sale (subject to the terms of sale).

Sous-Mission handles promotion, connecting you with clients, secure and anonymous payment, bank fees, moderation and data security. The price shown to buyers therefore differs from yours: Sous-Mission adds its operating fees, bank fees and, where applicable, shipping fees.

Example: you set 30 €, you receive 30 € once the sale completes.

Tips / Donations: since the amount is chosen freely by the client, a 20% contribution (site + transaction fees) is deducted when paying sellers. Referrals do not apply to Tips/Donations.

You set your own prices and keep the full amount you decide (excluding Tips).

Income examples:

• panties worn 24-48h: between 15 and 40 € depending on demand;
• custom photos: 5 to 20 €;
• videos or lives: variable rates depending on length and service;
• spontaneous Tips: amount freely chosen by the client.

What Sous-Mission takes: promotion, bank fees, moderation, secure payment and visibility. You pay nothing upfront. On Tips, a 20% contribution covers these services.

To increase your income: post regularly, interact with clients in private messages, earn the Vendeuse Star badge, take part in events (Mother’s Day, No-Panties Day, etc.).

As soon as a sale is effective, the amount credited to you is automatically transferred to your bank account, subject to a minimum transfer of 20 €, after a 7-day hold period from sale validation. Transfers are made once a week, on Tuesday. The bank label is “FiRe”.

Example 1: sale validated Tuesday 15/10 → hold until Tuesday 22/10 → transfer Tuesday 29/10.

Example 2: sale validated Monday 14/10 → hold until Monday 21/10 → transfer Tuesday 22/10.

Summary of triggers and payout delays:

For items shipped via the site’s carrier, the delivery notification (parcel tracking) acts as the buyer validation date.

General cycle: once a sale is validated and the 7-day security period has passed, the amount is transferred automatically every Tuesday.

Why this 7-day delay? It allows disputes to be handled calmly and guarantees service quality.

Practical tips:

• check your dashboard regularly;
• prefer tracked shipping to speed up validation;
• the minimum transfer amount is 20 €.

Pools, tips and donations let visitors and clients show their support spontaneously and selflessly. It is a voluntary gesture with no expected consideration: they cannot replace the purchase of items or content. Any attempt at exchange (e.g. a donation for a social-media link) is forbidden.

How it works:

• the amount is automatically credited to your personal pool;
• check its balance anytime in “My earnings”;
• you can cash out your pool anytime; the amount (excluding service fees) is paid per article 3 of the terms of sale.

Note: amounts from pools, tips or donations are not counted in the referral programme.

As a private individual, you are free to resell your own personal items you no longer use, without declaring the income.

However, if you generate more than 2,000 € AND more than 30 transactions per year, you must declare this income in your annual return (box 5NO) while keeping private-individual status.

If the activity becomes regular or primary (main source of income or most of your time), you must adopt a professional status (e.g. sole trader) to meet your tax and social obligations. You are responsible for declaring and paying tax on your transactions.

This information is indicative and not legal advice: if in doubt, consult a professional.

Payment is made via our fully secure system handled by our payment provider. You never have to disclose your identity or bank details to the seller.

To keep the transaction anonymous, only the label “FiRe” appears on your bank statement.

If you want a specific product or content, contact the seller by private message. She will specify the delay, price and conditions before validation.

We use secure, discreet payment solutions. No “Sous-Mission” reference appears on your bank statements.

Our moderation and review system drastically limits risks. We advise you to always keep exchanges on the platform and never share your personal details.

If the seller cannot or will not fulfil an order you paid for, the amount is automatically credited to your client wallet (internal credit) and usable for a future purchase. An external refund (transfer or card) is only possible exceptionally, after review by the Sous-Mission team.

The “Vendeuse Star” badge highlights profiles in the listings. Four combined criteria are required:

• Seniority: KYC validated for more than 30 days.
• Sales: at least 80 € of sales over the last 30 days.
• Reviews: at least 4 positive ratings (3 stars or more) over the last 60 days.
• Quality: at most 1 negative rating (under 3 stars) over the last 60 days.

Yes. From your profile → News page, you can post content (media + article). It is published in the News category for the duration you set. These posts help highlight a profile, a buyer or any information you find relevant.

• Items: list of items (excluding those tagged “Videos”).
• Videos: all items of type “Videos”.
• News: new items and videos shown in detail, plus sellers’ “News” posts, in descending date order.

• You earn 5% of your referrals’ purchases/sales.
• No limit: refer as many people as you want.
• The commission is active as long as you and your referral have an active account and the referral link is kept.

To refer: copy your unique link from the “Referral” section of your account.

To break the link: whether you are referrer or referee, you can end the referral anytime, without justification, via the contact form. Once broken, new purchases or sign-ups no longer generate commissions; commissions already earned remain due.

Exception: referrals do not apply to Pools / Tips / Donations.

On Sous-Mission.com, it is strictly forbidden to:

• offer paid sexual services;
• sell products from the human body (urine, excretions, secretions, etc.) or food;
• post links to third-party sites;
• request or accept payment or contact off-site;
• communicate via a third-party app (e.g. Snapchat) before an order is validated.

Any offender risks being banned from the site.

Sous-Mission.com takes privacy very seriously and follows the principles of the French data-protection authority (CNIL). No data is shared with third-party sites or partners.